Thursday, May 22, 2008

For shame

Ron Rosenbaum has an unusual article up at Slate today that touches tangentially on a topic I've been meaning to write about for some time. The article is about "liberal guilt" and questions why there isn't a corresponding conservative guilt over slavery and the attendant racism and discrimination that persists to a lesser extent today.

A few years ago, I was courting a young woman who was a native Texan. She once told me about how her high school had flown a Confederate flag until it was ordered by the government to take it down, and how offended she was. The students and parents of her school were almost totally united, so she said, in their belief that they had the right to fly that flag, if it weren't for the few black folks who complained and took the school to court.

I'm not a native Texan, and my home state of Indiana was a Northern state, and towns near where I grew up were even attacked by Morgan's Raiders during the Civil War. I don't believe that disqualifies me from disagreeing on this point, but if you do, feel free to stop reading.

What she and many other (white) people believe, especially those from Southern states, is that, because it is a part of their heritage, the Confederate flag should be flown above the institutions that serve them, like court houses, schools, and the like. A slogan seen every once in a while in this part of the country is "Heritage, not hate." What they don't admit, probably not even to themselves, is that hate is a part of their heritage, and to those African-Americans whose family history and economic prospects were shaped by slavery that flag is a symbol of hate.

So what?, they might ask. More people want the flag to fly than not, and this is a democracy. The problem with this reasoning is that individuals already have the right to fly the flag on their property as much as they want. But those institutions that are forbidden to fly it are forbidden because it represents the Confederacy, which sought the dissolution of the very country those institutions now serve and are a part of. Our state and federal buildings, including schools, fly the flag of the U.S.A. because it won the war. The Confederacy lost, and its symbols have no place in the governmental representation of the U.S.A., which serves black and white alike.

Some people still argue the Civil War wasn't fought primarily over slavery, largely because to admit the truth is to acknowledge the shame that comes along with it. They are wrong because none of the other factors they cite as causes would, individually or collectively, have led to war, and slavery, with or without those other factors, would inevitably have, if it was allowed to continue.

It is appropriate to feel a measure of guilt when faced with the reality that your lot in life has come in part at the expense of someone else's, whether or not you yourself had a hand in it. Everyone would like to celebrate the culture they come from without reservation, but those that do are turning a blind eye to those events and people who don't deserve to be celebrated. As I've noted before, it is appropriate to be ashamed of people who do shameful things without remorse or apology. Look at Germany, which has spent decades atoning for the sins of the ruling class over a handful of years in the 1930's and 40's. Slavery in America lasted 400 years. Why is anyone surprised that this stain is still present, and in need of work?

2 comments:

Anonymous said...

How long is the appropriate time for one to feel guilty over something they didn't do or even have part in? Not that I think racism should be celebrated, nor do I think a confederate flag should be flown over a building that serves all origins of people, but why should one feel guilty or shameful over it being done if they are not the ones doing it? I refuse to think that guilting people into not being racist will erase or eliminate racism. All it does is make people hide their true feelings. I believe that it should be understood that it is not the feelings of hate that make people dangerous or harmful--it is the acting on that hate that causes harm.

If people choose to stay ignorant and refuse to educate themselves and their children on developing opinions from their own experience and on an individual bases, then that is their choice. I refuse to feel guilty for their stupidity, their parents' stupidity, their ancestors stupidity, or even my parents'/ancestors' stupidity. There are people who do care to stop that cycle, but guilt is not the way to do that. Educating our youth is the only way to stop the cycle of hate.

Love you, Baby!

Becky

DB said...

The point is not to feel ashamed of something that you did not do. The point is that those who committed the acts should not be celebrated, even if they were family, because what they did was wrong. White Americans living today may not have been slave owners, but they both have in the past and continue to benefit from the fact that other white people in our nation's history were, and for that it is appropriate to feel guilt and to seek to assuage it. How to do so is a question we are still seeking to answer, but changing people's minds is a good start.